Chevra Kadisha
Chevra Kadisha
Darkhei Noam offers a variety of communal services for members of our congregation who have suffered a loss in their family.
Our Chevra Kadisha is available to perform taharot, using the facilities at the Plaza Jewish Community Chapel on 91st street. If you need the services of the Darkhei Noam Chevra Kadisha, please email chevra@dnoam.org.
As part of our Caring Community Initiative, members of the Darkhei Noam community are also available to assist families with preparing for a funeral, conducting the service if need be, and to facilitate minyanim and meals during shiva. Please email info@dnoam.org if you are in need of such services.
Background on Chevrot Kadisha and Darkhei Noam’s Approach
Genesis 4:8 relates that “Cain rose up against his brother Abel and killed him” (Genesis 4:8). The Midrash explains that Adam and Eve, walking nearby, discovered Abel’s body exposed in the field and did not know what to do. Nearby a raven was seen digging up the earth to bury its own dead, and following this example, Adam and Eve buried their son.
Jewish tradition understands the human body as the receptacle in which the Almighty places the soul, and which retains its sanctity even after the soul departs, much as a Torah scroll retains its holiness even after it is no longer usable. Care, consideration and respect must be accorded the dead as they are prepared, attended and escorted to their final resting place. Indeed, since ancient times, Jewish law has stipulated the obligation of towns or villages to bury the dead that extends (see: the egla arufa discussion in Deut. 21:1-9) even to passers-by who die outside their immediate borders.
In the Middle Ages, European Jewish communities established a separate Tahara House at their cemeteries where the deceased were prepared for dignified burial. The first formal chevra kadisha within Ashkenazi Jewry was established in Prague under the leadership of Rabbi Eliezer Ashkenazi in 1564, and the first chevra in America, known as Chesed V’Emet, was formed in New York in 1802. In our day, notwithstanding the existence of organizations serving the broader Jewish community, various individual kehilot and synagogues have elected to “take care of their own” and have organized their own chevrot kadisha reflecting the particular customs and values of the community.
The specific rules and regulations that govern preparation and burial of the deceased, much of which are based in minhag, i.e. custom, are widely scattered in halakhic literature. Customs have been transmitted from generation to generation, varying frequently in some detail from country to country, and from community to community. The objective of Darkhei Noam, under the guidance of our halakhic advisor, Rabbi Daniel Sperber, has been to establish a chevra kadisha for our own kehilah that will function in a manner consistent with halakhaand established minhag Yisrael and also reflects the particular character and values of the Darkhei Noam community.
It is our fervent desire that the members of the Darkhei Noam community and their families be spared the need to call upon the services of our Chevra Kadisha. But we also pray that if and when the need does arise, that burials conducted through our Chevra will be carried out with the proper degree of sensitivity and dignity, in accordance with Torah law and the customs and values of our community, and in a manner that helps bring comfort to those who mourn.
Thu, May 1 2025
3 Iyyar 5785
Today's Sefirah Count Is 18
היום שמונה עשר יום שהם שני שבועות וארבעה ימים לעמר |
Today's Calendar
Yom Ha'Atzmaut |
Sefirat HaOmer- counting the Omer. : 12:00am |
This week's Torah portion is Parshat Tazria-Metzora
Shabbat, May 3 |
Candle Lighting
Friday, May 2, 7:35pm |
Havdalah
Motzei Shabbat, May 3, 8:36pm |
Yom Ha'Atzmaut
Thursday, May 1 |
Upcoming Events
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AprApril 13 , 2025
Sunday, Apr 13th 9:00p to Sunday, Jun 1st 12:00p
Sefirat haOmer, the counting of the omer/”sheaf,” refers to the commandment to count the 49 days from the second day of Pesach until Shavuot. In biblical times, these 7 weeks comprised the grain harvest, beginning with barley (for which the barley omer offering was brought on Pesach) and concluding with wheat (on Shavuot). Although we no longer bring these offerings at the Temple, we continue to count the 49 days. While the biblical origin of sefirat ha’omer is agricultural, this time period also connects Pesach, the celebration of Israelite liberation from slavery, and Shavuot, the culmination of that liberation process whereby the Israelites became a realized nation with their own Torah. Counting the omer each year can remind us to always elevate ourselves from an enslaved mentality to one of freedom. We perform the counting each evening after sundown. We recite a bracha and then officially count the day of the omer, indicated by weeks and days. If the counting at night is missed, we count in the morning/during the day but without a bracha. If a whole day is missed, we continue counting the rest of the omer but without a bracha. The bracha and formula for counting the omer each night can be found here: Siddur Sim Shalom Sefirat haOmer -
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MayMay 3 , 2025
Shabbat, May 3rd 1:00p to 3:00p
Celebrate Israel with Darkhei Noam. Join us for a family friendly Shabbat lunch. The program includes children's programing, a special speaker and musical performance and sing along. -
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MayMay 4 , 2025
Sunday, May 4th 11:00a to 1:00p
Are you looking for a way to be outside in this wonderful spring weather? Darkhei's Jewish Youth Climate Movement group has just the event for you! We are organizing a park cleanup on Sunday, May 4th from 11 AM to 1 PM. We will meet at the entrance to Central Park on 85th and move to the swings and around the Great Lawn. All people of all ages are welcome-invite your friends! We will provide refreshments and supplies! Hope to see you there! -
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MayMay 10 , 2025
Shabbat, May 10th 1:00p to 3:00p
Register to either host or be a guest for Shabbat Lunch on Shabbat May 10. Open to Darkhei Noam members only. -
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Sunday, May 18th 11:30a to 4:00p
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JunJune 13 , 2025
Friday, Jun 13th 7:00p to Shabbat, Jun 14th 8:00p
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